The War Between Sexes

I have personally always maintained that the world has been structured on irony - two conflicting things with a pinch of humour thrown in. One of the most ironic truths i have accidentally (or was I eventually meant to) stumbled upon is that men and women are incompatible yet they are meant to be together. If you needed to create two sexes for reproduction and sexual enjoyment then why not make them more similar and more compatible. In the few relationships that I have observed the wars/battles/fights between the couple tend to be of similar pattern.

The girl does not understand why the guy cant be more careful, responisble and thoughful. Lets go through a trypical fight scenario -

A Saturday night.
Guy: Can we meet tomorrow some time? I have to go catch the football game at my friend's place.
Girl: But we were supposed to go for movies tonight.
Guy: Oh, I was meaning to tell you about this change of plans but it completely slipped my mind.
Girl: How could you? You promised a week back.
Guy: Its ok. We can go next Saturda.
Girl: I can't believe how you can be so indifferent. Doesn't our being together mean anything to you.
Guy: Why are you over-reacting. I don't know why you can not understand for once that I have to spend some time with my friends too.
Girl: I am not telling you not to spend time with my friends. Just tell me before hand.

Blah.. Blah.. Blah..

What the girl sees as indiffernece and carelessness on guy's part is just a normal thing he overlooked. The guy he feels why does she over react. Why cant she be reasonable and understand me for once and why does she keep on pointing out my mistakes. Why is she so nitpicking. Cant she se ehow much I love her. Why do I have to keep on demonstrating that.

According to guys, the girls just complicate things and over analyze. The girls should just 'chill'.

So what happens when the girl starts chilling. Well the guy gets apprehensive and starts wondering whats worng with her and starts analyzing whether she cares for him or not. So here we see a reversal of roles.

The irony is that there can never be ideal compatibility between the two sexes. It is means to be an uncomfortable, rock journey. So let go of the seat belts and safety nets and take a plunge into the uncertainity and risk of love.

(To be followed by what makes it worth the bother)